how to communicate with her

[Squatter]

i want to meet a girl. we were attending preschool together.then she moved away.i didn't see her for 12 years.now i found out attends same school as my friend. i have her icq number, i wrote if she rememers me.she replied yes. and that's all...i don't know how to start talking with her i don't know about what... please give me some advice...thx

[vashti]

You remember someone from preschool?

Anyway, I think you should just talk to her like you would any stranger, because after all these years, that is basically what she is, right?

[Lozenger]

Well ask her hows she's been all these years?
"Heya, it's been a while How are you? How's life going for you?"

That sorta thing


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[Mish]

Well ask her hows she's been all these years?
"Heya, it's been a while How are you? How's life going for you?"

That sorta thing


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That would work

You can also talk about something your friend is doing or some news you heard from your friend about what's been happenning at the school.

For example:

"Hey, my friend tells me....
....Your principal has gone mad
...There was a big fight last week
...They make you wear these funny things as part of your uniform what do you think about that?"

[Tedel]

That happened to me with Tatiana a few years ago. We separated when she went to the university and five years later, she was alluring.

I started with a hello, then bothering her a little and then asking her whether she wanted to have a cup of coffee with me and talk. Of course, that wasn't in the first phone call, I tried to grow some familiarity first.

Then we went to a date. It was nice, but I could find out she changed a lot since the last time. Now she was a bunch more maerialistic and that was a major turn off for me.

She liked me when we were 15, I liked her later, when we were 24, now she's 26 and getting married with a 'successful' engineer. I am happy for me and for her.