my boyfriend has asked me to move out but says he still wants to stay in the relationship.
i moved into his house about 8 months ago and admittedly, we have been arguing quite alot. when there are problems and stresses, we dont seem to lean on each other then resent each other for not doing just that.
i agree that the time ive been here, its not been amazing but i also know that it takes time to settle in to sharing space as ive lived with boyfriends before, he has not lived with girlfriends before - only once when his son was first born but that only lasted for a few months and by the sounds of it, reluctantly.
has anyone experienced this? does it or can it work?
im very blue and my emotions are all over the place crying, shouting, thinking way too much. im scared this is just a way of him dumping me - cowardly but possibly not true.
im very confused and dont want this to be the end.
ive changed quite a bit to try and fit his way of living but i cant change myself entirely. there just doesnt seem to be compromise.