Is wrong for to ask her to loose wieght?

[4jms]

I've been dating this girl for about 1.5 years. She is 19 with a 5 year old. When I met her she was a bit "large", I looked past it, but as the relationship when on I made began hinting she should loose weight. When she continued to get larger I straight out told her she need to loose weight, she didn't take it so well. Any way months later she still has little or no motivation to eat healthy or exercise. Im quite skinny and like to be active, spend time out doors.

I've opened my home to this 19 year old single mother and her child. I'm willing to give her a new career at my father's business that will double her current earnings. She's working a crap job making 10 something an hour right now.

Is it wrong for me to ask her to "diet and exercise do a little cooking and cleaning once i a while"

Wouldn't most women in her position kill for an opportunity like this?

[Mangochan]

You already posted this. Go look in your other board. -.- Everyone's opinions will be the same. And it's still lose, not loose.