i've give her my confession letter, she still haven't give me an answer

[mr.shy]

My crush and i have been going out for quite a few times
And we text almost everyday. But recently she have been distance herself away from me, and she texting with another guy whos interested in her. Afraid i might lose her i decided to tell her my feeling through letter as i'm a shy guy. Its been 4days since i gave her the letter but she hasn't reply me yet. Should i ask her? Or wait?
Sorry for my poor english.

[4 ratties]

I would move on honestly. She would of contacted u before now if she had the same feelings for you

[DalM0m]

I wish you would have asked us before you sent the confession letter. I would have advised against it. They never work & make you look creepy & unbalanced.

If upon receipt she didn't immediately jump into your arms, it's a lost cause.

I do need to ask about your word choice & it may be a language thing. You called her your "crush" which to me means that you two are not dating but then you said you have been going out. If you are going out, I'd call her your girlfriend. It's also less creepy to send a letter to a Girlfriend than a crush.

The fact that she's texting another guy is some indication that she no longer wants a relationship with you. Sorry.