she's only 15 and I am..... 21. Ok, before you call me a perv I don't look like I'm 21 at all (more like 17-18) and she looks like she's 17. Anyway she's gonna be 16 in December so this gives me a little hope but we still have a 5 1/2-year age gap. Anyway, I just wanted to know what you guys think about this situation. Is it ok if I ask her out, we seem to have an interest in each other.
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10-10-05, 12:02 PM #1
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I wanna go out on a date with this girl but...
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10-10-05, 12:08 PM #2
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Depending on where you live, she is jailbait. Bad idea, unless you fancy the idea of having to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life...
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10-10-05, 12:11 PM #3
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Who cares how you look. Stop being a pervert.
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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10-10-05, 12:20 PM #4
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Not going to work (At least there is a high % chance it won't).
Her being a minor aside you are forgetting that she is still a child, physically, emotionally and mentally. As such she will be, do and act as a child. So, i envision her being confused and not knowing what she wants will be very high on the agenda...
Also, no matter what happens between the two of you, you are the one who will always get the blame!Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
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10-10-05, 12:33 PM #5
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Well, she seems to be very mature for her age... I was actually shocked when she told me she was only 15, I really thought she was at least 17 but I really do like her... I know I shouldn't but I can't help it. Anyway I was kind of expecting these kind of answers, maybe I should try to get to know her better first and see if going out with her would be a good option. Thanks for responding.
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10-10-05, 12:36 PM #6
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Maybe you should stop talking to her and hang out with people your own age
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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10-10-05, 02:15 PM #7
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Good advice, is it worth having to go to the court house on your birthday every year to register as a sex offender.
Originally Posted by shh!
In my city they are outing sex offenders and they are being driven out of communities where children are prevalent.
Thinks with your big head man.
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Agreed. If you're in the US, you're looking at statutory rape if she's under 17. Plus, who gives a shit if you look like you're 18. You're still 21, and that may have been the stupidest logic I've ever heard. You're 21, she's 15. No 15 yr old is mature. I mean, she's just a sophomore in high school, and you could be out of college by now. That's ridiculous. Run like hell. Nothing good can come from a relationship with a girl that young. Originally Posted by TAVS
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You are a loser if you are 21 and thinking of dating a 15 yr old. I'm sorry, but there is no reasoning your way out of this one like "she's very mature for her age." Give me a break. If you consider her mature for her age, then you must be very immature for a 21 yr old. Even the differences between a 21 and a 18 are big. This girl is only 15. Good luck trying to convince her dad to let you date his daughter. I'd punch a hole through your chest for even thinking about it.
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I just hope she's not the jealous type. You'll be spending a lot of time with a guy named bubba after her parents find out.
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*High-Five* Originally Posted by Debunkt
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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10-10-05, 10:52 PM #12
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ahaha
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Ha! you're 21 and doing the bar scene, and all you can do is go to the local Middle School and pick up chicks! L-O-S-E-R.
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No, we work at the same place but it's not cause I can't get with girls of my age, she's just the one I'm interested in right now. Plus I live in Canada and I read somewhere that anyone over 14 can date or have sex with anyone over 14 no matter what their age is so I don't think there will be any legal problems here. Anyway I'm gonna take my chances with her... and so what if she's 15? She's gonna turn 16 soon, there's plenty of high school girls going out with college guys and there doesn't seem to be any problems. If we go along well together I don't see the problem.
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11-10-05, 08:27 AM #15
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*shakes head and walks away*
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