friend zone

[wjl022]

Can you put a guy in the friend zone once you've already made out with him several times (for lengths of time) and slept in his bed, expressed interest, but not had sex with him?

I kind of feel like I've been put there, though I have to say if that is what she thinks then she will find herself with one less friend. I have strong feelings for this girl and it would be too painful to be considered just a friend.

[Only-virgins]

Yea I think women and men being friends is partially a myth. All men want to **** their friend females. The women just put up a wall and act friendly till he gets a clue, gets bored, and goes elsewhere.

[lilly1185]

Yea I think women and men being friends is partially a myth. All men want to **** their friend females. The women just put up a wall and act friendly till he gets a clue, gets bored, and goes elsewhere.

That isn't true at all. I have plenty of male friends I've carried on with through highschool. Some of them are exs, and others are just friends.

Oops;
OP, have you tried talking to her and being up front that you have an interest in her that goes beyond friendship? Perhaps she is just unsure of her feelings.

[Only-virgins]

That isn't true at all. I have plenty of male friends I've carried on with through highschool. Some of them are exs, and others are just friends.

Well, either you have a kid or are ugly. Maybe that was a low blow but trust me, the exs still want some.

[lilly1185]

I've only had a kid for nearly 2 years lol. And I don't think that I'm ugly (I do have some photos up in an album here...). Nor do I wholly believe all my exs want me.

We're entirely platonic, and most of them are shacked up with LTRs. Trust me. Friendships can absolutely exist between a man and woman.

[Only-virgins]

Friendships can absolutely exist between a man and woman.

I know...it was just kind of the cool thing to say

[lahnnabell]

I too have remained friends with many of my exes. However, this has only occurred after ample space has been given and time has passed. I'm talking in years.

As it stands, from what I've heard from my male friends, guys surround themselves with women they find attractive. There is a point that the friendship gets to where the guy would never act on his attraction, but it's still there.

[kuaisudi]

A friend is boundless wealth