I am quite sure this wont go over well.

[Toddstar]

I Know you all will kill me for this but I have figured it out; its not worth it. Say goodbye to her/him. Let it go. Its VERY liberating. Look yourself in the mirror. LOVE you!!!! They are NOT happy! Trust me. You are ok. We sit and lament it, the relationship that failed, thinking they are on cloud 9 now without us. They are not. You know it. But you can be. Forget trying to find someone to replace them, find YOU and you will find that life is ok. Yep. I have posted some stuff, I was hurt for so long but I know I am better now. Will I find someone else? I dont care! Its up to you to like YOU! Just try it.

Life is too short for this. We are all better than this; we are stronger, we love ourselves, the sun shines every day. Do it for YOU!!!!

I am just a guy going through the same crap as all of you. I still think of my ex a lot. But I know I can do better. So can you.

Keep smiling and dont look back anymore. Ok?

[Cerby]

This post comes at a great time, where I'm thinking about contacting my ex. . .but you are completely right.

[DarkHelmet82]

Well as much as I say I wish my ex was unhappy.. i wouldnt mean that.. and I think she is in fact happy. But your post is right on.. thanks.

[Lifetime]

Definitely some good words. It's hard to really believe when you feel so low, but it is very true.

[Toddstar]

When I go back and read my older posts I just cringe

We are ALL better people than what has happened to us. Guaranteed our exes arent posting on a broken hearts forum!

[DarkHelmet82]

well, I can also guarantee they wont find anyone nearly as good as well.