Telling your parents.

**moeburn** · 13-10-04, 10:54 AM

How open are you with your parents when it comes to love? Because for me, god forbid they ever find out i'm interested in someone. How about you?

**sfalexi** · 13-10-04, 11:07 AM

I'm about as open as Mother Theresa's vagina.

Rod Steele

**jane** · 13-10-04, 12:07 PM

My dad and I are very close .. I dont tell him every little thing but if its substancial.. yeah .. I tell him. The thing is that my dad and my mom were divorced young. He has always been honest with me about everything .. I really love him for that.

**Steve2004** · 13-10-04, 02:37 PM

me and my dad dont talk much..so uhm..not too open with him. Me and my mom...eh...depends on what the topic at hand is. I would tell her if i just got in a fight with my boyfriend, or if i'm pissed at a friend. Because we discuss those things. But no i dont tell her about all the sexual things me and my boyfriend did over the weekend. And i dont ask her advice on what condoms to buy or anything. None of that

**KirstyM** · 13-10-04, 04:50 PM

I'm in the middle of a serious relationship....but as far as my parents know, I couldve been single all my life, they have no idea.

**moeburn** · 13-10-04, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by KirstyM

I'm in the middle of a serious relationship....but as far as my parents know, I couldve been single all my life, they have no idea.

Hehe, same with me.

**abercromqt20** · 14-10-04, 02:14 AM

i am really close with my dad like jane. but i don't just come out and tell him most stuff. but i don't exactly hide it either. he usually figures it out when he figures it out. like i broke up with a very serious bf of mine about 9 months ago... he was clueless until the new guy started coming around. i just prefer my private life to be private. there are somethings a parent should just not know about their children. those things i will just never talk to him about.

**KirstyM** · 14-10-04, 03:34 AM

I get along well with both my parents... I dont normally make a point of hiding my relationships from them...there just hasnt been anything really serious or worth telling them about so I just didnt and my past relationships never lasted very long so it didnt really matter.... Now I am in a serious relationship which I think could be the one but we're taking it slow and my parents wouldnt approve so I'm not telling them yet...

**cbee** · 14-10-04, 04:19 AM

I didn't really tell my parents about my last b/friend - my mum met him a few times and didn't really get on with him.

Now having seen that what she thought about him was pretty bang on I think I'd appreciate my parents input (not let it run my life but take it into account)

I wouldn't let them know about arguments etc... (I think that only turns them against your guy when it isn't necessarily the guy's fault and you're giving a biased opinion anyway) only if there was a situation I wanted their opinion on.

**moeburn** · 14-10-04, 04:34 AM

Originally Posted by KirstyM

I get along well with both my parents... I dont normally make a point of hiding my relationships from them...there just hasnt been anything really serious or worth telling them about so I just didnt and my past relationships never lasted very long so it didnt really matter.... Now I am in a serious relationship which I think could be the one but we're taking it slow and my parents wouldnt approve so I'm not telling them yet...

Thing is with me, i think both my parent's wouldn't have any real problem with my relationships. I guess i just have a poor history of them bugging me and nagging me about it.

**KirstyM** · 14-10-04, 05:26 AM

Originally Posted by moeburn

Thing is with me, i think both my parent's wouldn't have any real problem with my relationships. I guess i just have a poor history of them bugging me and nagging me about it.

My parents wouldnt have had any problem with my past relationships... but they will sure as hell have a problem with this one so Im staying schtum for as long as possible.

**zas** · 14-10-04, 07:08 AM

i talk to my mum about stuff, not sex or anything but its great to know she's there when my heart gets broken

**loverman** · 14-10-04, 08:54 AM

I don't say anything about my love life or anything to my parents.

**nomas** · 14-10-04, 09:22 AM

My parents would like for me to share, I'm sure..especially my Mom, but I like to keep that stuff private as well. If I had a formal girlfriend, I'd be sure to let them know and socialize and all, but for themost part, I don't like sharing too much with the old folks..

Freddie

**Focused** · 14-10-04, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by KirstyM

I'm in the middle of a serious relationship....but as far as my parents know, I couldve been single all my life, they have no idea.

I am EXACTLY the same way. I have often thought if I was the only one who kept their love life to themselves, but looks like I am definitely not alone. I get along with my parents, but even though I am 22 I still don't want to hear them bugging me about details and stuff. I have talked about my recent girlfriend with my sister though and she swears not to tell the parents.

Mark

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