I've always struggled with this...any time I've liked a girl or had a girl show the tiniest bit of interest in me, I always get attached too quickly and push them away. I've had people say "stay busy, keep your mind occupied, don't think about it" but even though I do that, I can't. I'm busy at work, have a vacation coming up that I'm excited about, but it doesn't keep my mind off it. I know that chilling out and being relaxed about it all will not only benefit me, but make everything easier between myself and any girl I'm talking to...I just don't know how to do that. It's like I'm programmed to over think and over analyze everything to the point where I ruin it >.<