He is older

[moi-meme]

Do u think it is possible for a man around 35 y.o. to fall in love with someone aged 20? He is my tutor, btw. I myself wouldn't think it is real, if it was not for my parents, cos my mother used to lecture at my dad's class and then we he graduated, she divorced from her actual husband and they got married... The only sad difference is that unlike us, they had 7 years difference only...

[jurupa]

Is it possible yes. Should you go for it? That is up to you.

[misombra]

he is too old for you. find somebody closer to your age.

[King Zarathu]

he is too old for you. find somebody closer to your age.

I agree.

[vashti]

I agree.

Me, too. I would be worried about a guy who was 35 who had much in common with a 20 year old. He is probably pretty close to being fully developed, and you are just beginning. In a few years, you will have outgrown him. Find someone closer to your age.

[Henry123]

He is my tutor, btw. .....

hymmm. He's in a position of authority. This isnt an appropriate thing to get involved with (I speak from personal experience.) (went out with my teacher in high school)

[Henry123]

Me, too. I would be worried about a guy who was 35 who had much in common with a 20 year old.

Your just jealous thats all.

[vashti]

Your just jealous thats all.

Yeah, that must be it.

::rolling eyes smiley::

[Henry123]

Yeah, that must be it.

::rolling eyes smiley::

I'm just pulling your leg Vashti.

[Gigabitch]

Get off of her leg, Henry! You are incorrigable.

Moi-meme- is this guy single?

[Sami09]

henry what happened with the teacher did she lose her job?

How long did you date her? was it hard to keep it a secret?

What was the age differences. i am just interested thats all

[King Zarathu]

How long did you date her?

HOLY SHIT! A COHERENT SENTENCE!


I have increased your rep for coherence.

[Mathias]

I love pancakes.

[moi-meme]

Well... i should have mentioned that ive been in a stable relationship with someone of my age for the last 5 years and a half... i still am actually. I have been sharing the same appartment with my actual boyfriend for almost 3 years now and... what i feel for him is tenderness and love, but in a very different way fom what I feel towards this men. I am not obsessed with him or sth. It's been for 2 months and I feel said. He is a kind, rational, caring man, he seems to have all those qualities that my current bf is missing in one way or another, and which I need. I feel that apart from passion, which of course I feel at the moment, I could lively happily with this new person, because we have similar mindsets and emotionality etc ....

[vashti]

WTF???

Yes, you SHOULD have mentioned that before! So not only are you smitten with an inappropriate man, but you also have another one you are running around on?

I think all this drama you are creating is a symptom of lonliness, not love, and I think it is looking like you want to be taken care of, hence your interest in the older guy.

You should live on your own. You are too young to be playing house with a guy, especially for such a long time. You need to gain a sense of independence and strength so you can learn to choose with wisdom.