Ok so months back when I was whining over my ex still. I met this guy. I liked him but we were out drinking and I reached a point where I was exhausted and wanted to go home. He was super nice and paid for a cab and took me home and then left. He has since told me he was trying to hit on me that night and really wanted to kiss me goodnight that night but his friend was there. So the next time I saw him nothing special happened my friend was flirting with him and he was kinda flirting back (apparently it's just their friendship but I am pretty sure he used to like her) She does not like him she just likes attention. The next time I saw him he was dancing at a party with his ex girlfriend, who is someone I know too. So the weekend before last he met up with us dancing and we danced the entire night, and I went back to his place. We didn't have sex but we fooled around a bit-let's just say I did nothing for him. Then I saw him Monday at an intramural game and we hardly talked. Then Thursday I texted to see what he was up to and he said I should come over. I told him me and my two friends were going to (one being the one he used to like). His friend said he looked nice that night b/c "he knew you were coming over" when my friend asked but I think it might have been meant for me. I stayed that night. Even though his roommate was hitting on me hard I wasn't interested and he had said he was worried I was going to fall for it and hoping I wasn't. The next night he came over to our friends by himself to hang out and we went back to my place for the night. We both expressed that we were glad we weren't drunk. We have had sex at this point- not exactly proud of that but it was hard to resist and I've never done anything like that. He told me to keep him posted about my plans Sat. night. I kept him posted and we went back and forth between seeing each other and not. He wouldn't come dancing and I couldn't get over there. Finally he recommended we not see each other that night and hang out Sunday instead. But he had something going on and I never heard from him. I finally texted "lets hang out again soon" he started texting asking what I was up to and how my day was...etc. Then last night at intramurals we talked but nothing special really. I have realized I like him a lot but I don't want to be jsut a hook up. Am I? Have I done anything wrong? What should I do from here? We talk a lot when we are laying in bed in the morning and before bed. He hasn't asked me out yet and he hasn't kissed me goodbye in the morning yet. But he does kiss my forehead at night and in the morning etc and rub my back and such. Please I am not good at dating and what should my next move be!!