What word do you think I should have used ??? mothering or spoiling ??? We had a talk about what went wrong when we moved in together,I had been tight lipped about what I could see ,doing everything for her daughter ,washing, cooking ,etc even after she had done a hard days work us both cooking a meal ,then she makes up a tray puts the dinner on it and takes it to her daughter who is in bed (not Sick),that got me!!! we were on holiday and she got a txt "mum can you bring back a new laptop in pink please?" done !! now I said that I thought she was mothering to much ,well did the Sh.t hit the fan !!! I didn't mean mothering as in nuturing ,but as in doing to much !! should I have used the word SPOILING???
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