I don't think anyone will be able to give you a good advice on this because different things work for different people. Start with little things that you know he likes. After that you will have to rely on your intimate knowledge of him as an individual, knowledge of what he likes, what turns him on and on your preparedness to show willingness and understanding.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~