Unsure, help please

[PeCuLiAr DuDe]

After a long period of time I have actually found a girl that's down to kick it. This would be our second date and I really want to be more physical towards her. I am not sure of how to be more touchy feely, show her for real what is going on, ya know.

Thanks you for any help.

[King Zarathu]

Simple--when the moment is right, hold her hand. You guys have hugged already, I assume?

[PeCuLiAr DuDe]

indeed we have, but I have never figured that hand holding stuff to work, unless she was digging it.

[thinker]

Sounds like you are only in this for the physical gratification... which is not good. You should take things reeeeeeal slow and let that aspect of the relationship develop naturally with due time. Don't try to push for something she may not be ready for.

[PeCuLiAr DuDe]

naw, you got me all wrong. I am not in this just for the physical gratification, I only want to test the waters, be a little bit more forward and see how she reacts ya know.

[dreamer101]

when you are about to part after a date or something, hold both her hands into yours, look into her eyes, say something if u want like "i had a good time etc", make sure she is looking at you, keep looking for a few seconds, then take a forward step, and kiss her on the cheek, slowly. then look into her eyes again. make sure ur close, not too close. read her body langauge e.g. if she looks away let it go. be cool. it'll all look fake though if u don't mean it. good luck.