So I Set Up A Hidden Camera In My Girlfriends Apartment

**generalx** · 02-07-09, 02:06 AM

I guess i wanted to know what she and her friends generally talk about "I KNOW I KNOW WHAT I DID WAS MESSED UP" "LMAOOOO"
we've been dating for almost 3 yrs, we live together so she and her friends were discussing ME. and boy, oh boy, they keep pressuring her "Why are you not getting engaged etc" she's telling them she cannot wait any longer.

You know what one of her friends said? "Lets find you someone in Secret and when you're sure of it. DUMP ME" My Girlfriends response was "I really want this relationship to work, but if he doesn't want to get married i want him to leave"...

Her friend invited her to a party weekend and told her" Dress up real nice, get your hair done etc we'll take pictures and set up an account for you on a dating website...

Here friend said "do it in secret" and when you're sure the new relationship is going to work "then slowly let him go"...her response was "OKAY"........

I told her a few times i'm not ready to get married, at least not yet.

I'M 37 AND SHES 50 CAN ANYONE OFFER SOME ADVICE? PLEASE

**Bumble_bee** · 02-07-09, 02:08 AM

wow.........

**vashti** · 02-07-09, 03:10 AM

If this post is genuine (which is questionable), then surely you shouldn't be surprised that a woman that age wants some security in her old age. She wants to get married - if you don't, then break up.

**Gribble** · 02-07-09, 03:12 AM

Yeah. This is a crock of shit.

On a related note, I think if a girl planted a camera in my home to spy on me that would be one of the very few things she could do that might elicit a violent response.

**Graham Berkeley** · 02-07-09, 08:35 AM

Sounds like you guys are meant for eachother.

**Illusional** · 02-07-09, 11:32 AM

suicide is always an option.

raverboy

**DelicateRose88** · 02-07-09, 02:24 PM

Originally Posted by Gribble

Yeah. This is a crock of shit.

On a related note, I think if a girl planted a camera in my home to spy on me that would be one of the very few things she could do that might elicit a violent response.

Wow, ok. . . normally I'd call Gribble an asshole, but I HAVE to agree with him here. I'd be quite belligerent with someone who did that.

Did you seriously plant a camera in your apartment to spy on your girlfriend? OK, lets forget about what she agreed to and talk for a second about the serious disconnect that must be happening between the two of you for you to feel the need to do something so, so. . . wrong.

**Illusional** · 02-07-09, 02:26 PM

gribble is an ashole..but you do read between the lines?

raverboy

**DelicateRose88** · 02-07-09, 02:37 PM

Originally Posted by Illusional

gribble is an ashole..but you do read between the lines?

raverboy

Not really sure I understand what you are asking me.

**SAVANAH** · 02-07-09, 06:47 PM

thats heavy, I'd kill you, no respect for her whatsoever thats for sure, forget about what she said you in fault, remove the camera and make some decisions, what you mean you not ready, you 37 how much more 'readier' to you need to be?
She's 50 and clearly knows what she wants, same can't be said for you, propose or leave, you obviously just not sure whether she is 'the one' what other excuse could there be. you already living together, make up your mind, you two clearly aren't on the same page.
Seems like you just using her!
What you still waiting for?

**Yggdrasil** · 02-07-09, 07:18 PM

If your story is true.. dump her.

(That way she is free to find someone decent who is willing to commit).

**Enigmos** · 02-07-09, 11:38 PM

generalx, just curious what is your viewpoint on marriage? this isn't a judgmental question, just trying to get background info. some people are fine with LTRs, while others want the piece of paper. is your issue that you don't like the idea of marriage or you don't like the idea of being committed to her? if the latter, you know, in your heart, that this relationship will end. if the former, you should share with her your thoughts.

**love82** · 05-07-09, 02:32 AM

is this true? sounds very much like a teen show. If it's true, you may want to spare a consideration for her as she's already 50.

**Illusional** · 05-07-09, 06:09 AM

Originally Posted by DelicateRose88

Not really sure I understand what you are asking me.

haha that was probably meant for another thread.

raverboy

**lastwish** · 06-07-09, 09:33 AM

Why do people want to marry in their 50s?

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