indecisive girl

[mer1]

i'm 110% that this girl likes me but she's the indecisive type. her and I have known each other long enough where I figured she be able to open up to me ( unless other factors here that she's in college where college/career is one of her top goals and whatever else)

so in general a girl for example likes a guy alot,but that she's indecisive is it possible to get scared and hold back forever.

[carpflounder]

Yes its possible to hold back forever. No matter what encouragement I give you it will probably make no difference. I take it you are the "indecisive" type about asking girls out. If you are then you are here to vent rather than seek answers.

One thing is for sure, however, and that is that if you dont ask her out you will never know. Good luck!!

[mer1]

no i'm not the indecisive type..it's the girl that I like that's the indecisive which is making the situation harder than it should be right now. with wondering whats going thru her mind.

[carpflounder]

Why does it matter whats going through her mind??

[mer1]

like I said on my first post I believe that she likes me but thinking she's holding back here and won't tell me either way. knowing she's very indecisive type overall .in general here I wonder if it's possible to like someone alot but be too scared to do anything and hold back forever.

[carpflounder]

And as I said in my first post: yes it is possible to be too scared that you hold back forever.
If you want to hold back...continue to do so.
Its your choice what you do. YES IT IS POSSIBLE

[Mish]

Start working your "Love Magic" on her and soon enough you will know. The chase is better than the catch

Personally, i get scared when a girl makes a first move on me or tells me that she likes me. It makes me feel too feminine...

Respect...

[Junket]

So how are you 110% sure she likes you if she's so indecisive?

If she's really that indecisive that sounds more like you have a 50% chance of being liked by this girl and 50% of not.

[Ellynn]

Yes she may like you but she probably is scared to get involved right now. Sometimes the timing is the greatest or maybe she had a bad experience in the past with a relationship and now shes kinda backing off....