What would you change about yourself?

[Mish]

A recent discovery for me. I think that at least some of my problems can be explained by my initial (subconscious) mistrust of people in general. Something I need to work on I think. I think I need to challenge this notion in everyday situations.

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Now you...

[doppelgaenger]

I would correct my vision problem, which as of now is not correctable. Other than that, I would make it so that my ears didn't produce so much ear wax. I keep trying to clean out my ears with my pinky finger and I end up burying my eardrum in the stuff every time. I would also take my foreskin back, and become uncircumcised... I would also eliminate my folliculitis completely.

Other than that, everything's pretty damn fine.

[Lipp]

I'd eat and exercise in order to gain weight and bulk up a bit, being a poor international student and having to study/work at such a hectic pace pretty much ruins any time for such aspirations until Im done.

Personality-wise I'm pretty happy with myself.

[The_bobb]

Apart from obvious physical things (exercise and what not). I wouldn't mind being more optimistic. I always see the worst that any situation can throw at me.

Like winning the lottery, sure all the money would be great. BUT then i'd be in a higher tax bracket. So i'd be paying massive amounts out.

Also wouldn't mind having more class =)

[Junket]

I'd like to have perfect vision.

[QuiteCurious]

I want to stop worrying about the things I cannot control. My plan to fix this (which is already in action), is to concentrate on improving those that I can.

I want to be truly happy, and I believe this has held me back.

[lovesjoyajm]

I'm working on becoming more cheerful and complaining less. Also when something annoys me, like when someone cuts me off walking or something, rather than thinking "what the ****" and getting annoyed, I'm working on reminding myself that it wasn't intentional and forgetting about it rather than letting it fester.

This may sound stupid, but I REALLY wish I was less sensitive to certain sounds (like nail-biting, gum-popping, etc) - I've tried to just endure it but it literally grates on my ears and puts me in the most terrible mood.

[Aeradalia]

What I would like to change about myself would be to remove the 'perpetual servitude' theme I have always playing in the back of my mind. Catering to this keeps me sad, desperate, and unsure of anything in regards to myself.

I feel like I'm not entitled to anything... not happiness, not bettering myself, not love --- nothing. And for most of my life, nothing, is exactly what I have to show for it all.

I am working to understand my own psychology... compare it to others that are similar.. and try to 'relearn' or 'unlearn'. However, I always have this sense of impending doom... as though something will come along to take away all my accomplishments. I know, it sounds silly to read it... but a real pain in the ass when your own mind believes it.

[Gribble]

I'd ditch my reliance on luxuries such as electricity and running water so I could find myself a cave and leave the world to run itself into the ground without me.

[Spring Haze]

I'd be more driven, and not so fearful.

[The_bobb]

What I would like to change about myself would be to remove the 'perpetual servitude' theme I have always playing in the back of my mind. Catering to this keeps me sad, desperate, and unsure of anything in regards to myself.

I feel like I'm not entitled to anything... not happiness, not bettering myself, not love --- nothing. And for most of my life, nothing, is exactly what I have to show for it all.

I am working to understand my own psychology... compare it to others that are similar.. and try to 'relearn' or 'unlearn'. However, I always have this sense of impending doom... as though something will come along to take away all my accomplishments. I know, it sounds silly to read it... but a real pain in the ass when your own mind believes it.

God i know exactly what you mean. I've been struggling with this exact same thing all my life. And i'm no closer to understanding it or fixing it than i was years and years ago.

[Illusional]

what any right man would want to have before a bigger dick... to be hugh hefner.

raverboy

[First]

nothing fam.... i'm like a true beast mo.

[ecojeanne]

If I could just stop myself from saying things I always regret saying and winding people up. I’m working on it. I’ve bit my tongue quite a lot lately and I’ve seen good results. It’s still a general problem for me tho.

[misombra]

nada. yo perfecta.