Am I being Paranoid?

[Sebby]

I have recently been seeing this guy who lives miles away but we speak almost everyday and it seems to be going well. He recently told me he loves me and I mean the world to him. He has run out of credit on his phone waiting to get paid and the last few times we spoke I have had to phone him. The last couple of times we have spoke he has said to me as soon as I get credit I will ring or text you. Does this mean he doesn't want me to contact him again? or is he just reassuing me as he feels guilty that I have to call him at the mo? Or am I just being paranoid?

[FullofSighs]

more than likely parnoid. It is probably making him upset your having to put all the effort into keeping the relationship going and also wants to be a gentlemen, and call you instead of you calling him.

[Sebby]

Thanks for your reply I feel heaps better now... I think you are right and he is a gentleman!

[Sebby]

What does anyone else think, do you think he doesn't want me to contact him again?

[jimmy28]

Yes, he wants u to call him , think it would mean allot to him if u called means u are thinking of him. Same thing full said he just trying to be gentleman.

[Petit Papillon]

Yes You are asking it over and over again,even posting a second thread about it. FYI, it's deleted now. We don't like double threading.

[IncognitoSir]

Yeah, you're totally over thinking it. He's just being thoughtful and assuring you that you wont always be the one calling him, but he WILL be calling you as well when he is able.

[Sebby]

Thanks for taking the time to reply , feel better now!

[mrman256]

he probably wants u to ring back. it sucks when ur in a relationship and seem to be doing all the work. he needs to feel like u want him.

[Sebby]

Thank you Mr Man x

[bo_salecta]

if your a generally chilled person (for eg: your not too suspenceful, not too calm) and your getting paranoid.

then you probs are right.