Men and porn

[flygirl]

Is it normal for a man, in a relationship with a sexy, free spirited woman, to look at porn on the internet? late into the wee hours of the night?

[Junket]

Probably, if he's afraid that free spirited woman would give him shit for it.

[Gigabitch]

A free spirited woman wouldn't give a shit or ask if it's normal.

[flygirl]

I guess it just gets to me sometimes. I try not to let it. But I want to be this cool laid back g/f I was in the beginning. I dont know. But thanks for the advice

[Indignant]

does he know that sexy and freespirited side of you? or the vile and controlling?

[misombra]

how often does it happen and how often do you have sex?

[flygirl]

yes he knows the sexy side of me and free spirited. He just likes looking at lingerie. And it happens maybe once a week or sometimes twice a month. And we have sex sometimes 4 times a week, sometimes twice a day sometimes we go a week and not. I dont mind him looking if he shares it with me. But 2 in the morning, locking the door to the computer room, it causes issues.

[Indignant]

you are nuts girl, or a troll

[misombra]

i would only worry if he didn't want to have sex and looked at it every night.

it sounds like once in a while he just needs to spend some time fuking himself.

[flygirl]

okay. I thought so too. not the nuts or troll part..lol. but that its normal. Thanks everyone

[Swiss Butterfly]

My guy watches porn, owns porn and knows I do too. Most of mine comes from him, and I show him the ones I find on the Internet that I like... Depends what porn he watches, I suppose. But honestly I think he is scared of your reaction...

[Illusional]

single or taken... i look at porn on a regular basis...

raverboy

[LoveHurts09]

does he know he's hurting u? just talk to him about it - by that i mean talk not tell him what to do. maybe he wants some kinky sex or doesnt think u're open enough to understand his needs.

dont take porn personally, all (young?) guys want sex a lot and doing it when ur asleep seems like his way of not letting it interfere with ur relationship.

[cakalut]

Men and Porn, men sometimes need porn...

[Gigabitch]

I guess it just gets to me sometimes. I try not to let it. But I want to be this cool laid back g/f I was in the beginning. I dont know. But thanks for the advice

I've made that mistake before. I recommend AGAINST purporting yourself to be one of those high-performance, low-maintenance girls that only exist in the fantasies of men. It's like digging your own grave.

And just so you know, "free spirited" is a euphemism for "whore". Don't apply that description to yourself.

It doesn't matter if he looks at porn- it isn't a comment on your relationship or attractiveness. If he likes looking at lingerie so much, though, maybe you should get some. Lingerie is fun.