Seeing your own body sexually?

[AlwaysHers]

Question for the girls.
Just say during afterplay your guy makes comments about how good you look naked and tries to show you this, do you dislike looking at your own naked body? Is it because you don't think you look great? Or is there something else?

[ecojeanne]

i adore looking at my body. my perception has changed over the years. in my 20's i never looked and always covered up. in my 30's i feel free and just love it. i think sometimes i'm too vain coz i'm looking so much better now than i have ever looked. to me turning 30 was the beginning of my best years emotionally, physically and spiritually. my 20's were awkward and uncomfortable and full of guilt.

[vashti]

Yeah, my 30s were better than my 20s, too. Girls in their 20s are way too neurotic.

[CocoChanel]

I like my body!!!
I think it's cool.
Except my tits are too big to me.
I want them reduced.

[Gribble]

I'm always amused when I tell a girl what a beauty she is and she just flat-out doesn't believe me. And I'm not talking about those girls full of false-modesty, either.

[speakerspoke]

What's the point? lol

Some over zealous e-stasi deleted most of the posts in the thread.

[AlwaysHers]

So do you think there is anything I can do to help my girl feel more comfortable with herself naked?

She does weird things like puts on her PJ's then takes off her bra when going to bed and she knows its crazy, and knows I know its crazy. But still does it because she doesn't feel comfortable being naked or something. She has told me its not because she is with me, she does these things on her own too. I managed to get her in the hot tub for 2 hours naked, so maybe I'm already making head way?
I just want her to be comfortable with herself. She should be!

[Bumble_bee]

Your GF is insecure.....trying to make her look at her body in the mirror will not help (what are you her therapist?)

when makng love, pay attention to every part of her body, if you can, be especially attentive to those parts you know she is concious of. it won't change her over night, be it will slowly build her confidence and reassure her that you love her body.

[Aeradalia]

My boyfriend says I resemble a Botticelli painting... I tend to divide that into at least half true... that's good enough for me

[Lava_twilight]

I hate looking at myself in the mirror or full length. I can't stand seeing myself, I have been told I have a lovely figure & face, but all I see is rolls of fat & yuk.... I hope I grow out of this when I hit my 30's lol

I don't even like seeing photos of myself...I have personal issues, I know this. I've never felt comfortable around men naked, except my ex. And now he's off sh*gging a girl 4 dress sizes smaller than myself...I know I'm heading for a personal-image fall again...

[lastwish]

She's insecure about her body. I have a friend who wouldn't even wear a tank top. It's hard to change because it is the way they are brought up. Just leave it as it is.

[DoesntMatter]

Who deleted my posts, asshole?

[Charlie Boy II]

what did they say?

[CocoChanel]

I get what you mean.
Lava. But do you think you are insecure?
Or just one of those girls who don't like looking at themselves naked. LOL
Because AH she just might be one of those girls who doesn't like to see themselves naked.

[bluesummer]

My fiance finds me unbelievably hot and I never understand why, truly. He's been with girls with way better bodies than me.

Yes, it really baffles me. But as long as I'm getting laid, I'm not going to mention it. Just keep my insecurities to myself.