General question ladies.

[blue toxin]

Long story short. I've had this friend for... geez, 10 years? (I'm 20). He's been dating this girl for a couple months. The other day, he introduced me to her best friend. It was sort of a blind date thing/just hanging out type of situation. Well, she seems to be very interested in me. She also seems to be a very modest girl, only had 1 serious relationship before, etc etc.

Well, things have been going well, but I don't want to rush anything as far as asking her out. I was kinda saying to myself "give it at least another week or two." Well, I talked to her about doing something this weekend. She suggested that we watch a movie. I thought nothing of it, but then I found out that her house will be empty.

I don't really think anything of it, but I was a little curious over how trusting she's seemed to of been of me already. Asking a guy to come watch a movie with you in an empty house, that is. Then again, my buddy speaks very highly of me to her and we've known each other for a decade, so maybe that makes her feel more at ease.

Anyway, just tell me what you think ladies. Really not a big deal, but I like to ask questions when something is on my mind. mkthx.

[Gigabitch]

BT, even I know you can be trusted not to be a pig and take advantage of that situation. I'm sure your friend told her you're trustworthy.

Don't weird out on the situation. You're just at the beginning of a part of your life where this is totally normal, and watching a movie in an empty house will soon become something you take for granted. It doesn't mean she's planning to seduce you.

[blue toxin]

Yeah, I'm not weirding out. I was just kind of shocked that she was as trusting of me already, because I got the vibe she was a hard egg to crack with that. But she's seemed to enjoyed the talks we've had, and my buddy told her a lot about me and my ex and everything I did for her, so I think she thought highly of the fact that I'm a "gentleman" and not just a typical guy. So maybe all those things together just made her warm up to me at a faster rate than I expected.

I'm sure she'd boot my ass out the door if I tried anything though. Hahaha.

[Junket]

so I think she thought highly of the fact that I'm a "gentleman" and not just a typical guy.

We are the typical guy.

[blue toxin]

We are the typical guy.

Why is this sir?

[Junket]

Why is this sir?

You talk of the typical guy as something negative.

Lemme guess, the guy who wants to screw girls but don't give a damn about 'em?

The player?

The heartbreaker?

Pfft.

That's society giving a few outspoken jackasses more credit than they're due.

You and me man, and most of the dudes on here, are the typical guy.

This is why I scoff at all the self righteous assholes that come in here spouting how they, unlike "other" guys are kind to women, romantic, blah blah blah. That they're so different, so special, God's overlooked gift to women.

When really, they're just dumB.

[blue toxin]

That's not what I was really implying, but okay.

[lamarthe]

I don't really see an issue unless you get there, she opens the door in a negligee and throws herself at your feet... Would you run?
I don't see an issue at all. She asked you over to watch a movie so take some pop-corn!

[Charlie Boy]

You talk of the typical guy as something negative.

Lemme guess, the guy who wants to screw girls but don't give a damn about 'em?

The player?

The heartbreaker?

Pfft.

That's society giving a few outspoken jackasses more credit than they're due.

You and me man, and most of the dudes on here, are the typical guy.

This is why I scoff at all the self righteous assholes that come in here spouting how they, unlike "other" guys are kind to women, romantic, blah blah blah. That they're so different, so special, God's overlooked gift to women.

When really, they're just dumB.

Spot on! What a top post. Kudos to you.

[Gribble]

That's society giving a few outspoken jackasses more credit than they're due.

I resent that.

[Junket]

I resent that.

Don't take it to heart.

You care enough to at least acknowledge your "inability" to care.

Plus, you're on LF, so you're cool.

[clynn]

She trusts you by proxy.

[jurupa]

My guess is that she was testing you to see what you would do in a situation like that.

[General Mac®]

MAYBE she this is a SEXUAL INVITATION to fullfil her needs which werent met by the previouse guy, just another point of view. Absorb everything here mate, it will help but remember, the final decision is up to you, if you like death then join the suicide line