girlfriend/ex stole from me.

[carpflounder]

Been going out with her for about 5 months. She is my first girlfriend. I'm her sixth boyfriend. Anyways money was missing twice. I confronted her and she lied, yelled, used histrionics, was sarcastic and evasive; but bottomline she was not convincing. She finally fessed up and told me why. But she only fessed up to the first theft of my money and of course said that this was the only thing she has ever stole-YEAH RIGHT-when she stole 2 cigarettes from her sister she said that was also the first time she EVER took cigarettes w/o her permission.

She cried and begged me not to dump her. I drive 50 minutes to see her everytime, and pick her up and bring her back on weekends. I've paid for food, bars, road trips, everything. She has never so much as covered a tip or paid a toll. She now does not work and wants to live with me. She has stolen $20 on two occasions. When she was begging me to hold on to the relationship it seemed that she was so upset about the relationship dissolving, rather than upset because of the pain she caused me by her stealing and lying while in such a position of trust (we were about to move in together).

This weekend is the first weekend we wont be spending together in 5 months. I'm going camping alone with a bottle of grey goose I need time to think and reflect... and sadly to distance. I'm really leaning on the side of dumping her. Tell me what would you do? If your bf or gf did this to you? Its painful, thanks.

[misombra]

...talk about a red flag!

she steals your money and she's histrionic. i vote dump.

i'm a woman by the way, i wouldn't even think of stealing my boyfriends money without permission, and we live together! i think if she asked if she could borrow 20 bucks it would be another thing...

[carpflounder]

Thank you Misombra.
C'mon guys and gals, if any of you have any advice please let me know...please. Thanks

[Snipaa]

i'm a woman by the way, i wouldn't even think of stealing my boyfriends money without permission

You mean your boyfriend gives your permission to steal his money?....l0l

PS. Dump man! That's just wrong! Will you ever trust her?

[LightOn]

Dump her, Dump her, Dump her....DUMP HER!

If you continue things with her you will worsen your situation soooo much more.

This is one of them girls I would never want to see for the rest of my life, she is taking you for a fool and everytime you see her, it will remind you of how you "left" her get away with it. I mean that in a sincere way.

[bLu3y]

in my opinion, u should ask her y she ish doin tat? probably she has her own reasons.. although it is not right to steal.. if her reason is crap, i suggest u tell her u r sorry but u hab to leave her..