There's a girl I'm interested in getting to know. She doesn't think that I'm ugly. She thinks I dress very well and have a lot of things going for me. However, she said to my friend that I'm out of her league. Personally I don't get this. I've never heard anyone say "there's nothing bad about how you look but you're out of my league". She didn't say anything bad about me. I am very confused.
May someone explain this if they can. I am confused.
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21-11-11, 08:40 AM #1
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You're not ugly but you're out of my league.
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21-11-11, 08:58 AM #2
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She thinks you are too good for her.
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21-11-11, 11:27 AM #3
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Maybe you just need to show her a little more attention....otherwise she will just write you off as not attainable. I know I get intimidated by men of certain types and just automatically assume that they would never be interested so I didn't pursue it.
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21-11-11, 01:29 PM #4
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It's the opposite. She thinks "She is out of my league".
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23-11-11, 04:58 PM #5
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She means that she is too good for you.
Move on and don't look back.
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24-11-11, 01:39 AM #6
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if a girl says "he's out of my league" it means you, the man are too good for her. (which is what you said if your first post)
if a girl says "I AM out of HIS league" it means she's cocky and stuck up and you best not be interested anyways.
... so which did she say... because you're conflicting.
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24-11-11, 03:03 AM #7
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If you are out of her league, you should be happy, cus all you gotta do is dress down, shower less and act crappy, then you would be in her league.
Seriously though, if two people are not in the same league (physical appearance aside), then it's just another obstacle to overcome.
How needs such stress?
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24-11-11, 10:26 AM #8
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Okay, I read this wrong then.......if SHE thinks you're out of HER league....then she's a bitch and just wash your hands of her. Ugh, people that think like that are so disgusting.
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24-11-11, 01:21 PM #9
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People seek partners they consider to be their equal. She doesn't consider you to be her equal for whatever reason.
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Sorry about that. She said "I'm out of his league". Yet she doesn't think anything is bad nor unattractive about me....... Oh well time to move on.
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26-11-11, 08:29 PM #11
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She doesn't actually like you, and its her way of saying she's not interested by making you feel better. Sorry dude
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