Why would she say yes to begin with...?

[struckby]

My..friend..and I have dated several times. After every date, including the last one, she said she had a great time and that she would like to do it again. The last date, at the end, she told me that she was not ready for a relationship because she felt to young and wanted to continue to get to know me. Im 22 and she is 19 btw, but she has never been in a relationship before. We later talked and she said that she was only interested in me as friends. Why would she say yes to multiple (4) dates if she knew she was not interested to begin with?

[DelicateRose88]

Maybe because she didn't know "to begin with."

[struckby]

Yea, because asking someone out (4 times) by saying..I want to take you out on a date..clearly isnt a date amirite?

[DelicateRose88]

Yea, because asking someone out (4 times) by saying..I want to take you out on a date..clearly isnt a date amirite?

Hmm, that's a good point. To tell you the truth, sometimes girls accept dates to be nice and once they realize (like on the 3rd or 4th time of being asked out) that the guy is seriously interested and not just asking to ask then that's when they react and pull out the "just friends" card. Happened to me once. =\ Sucks, I know.

[ecojeanne]

she's young, she's unsure, she's just learning. thats why