I'm Tammy, 23, student. I live on the border of The Netherlands/Germany.
When I was 16 I had my first and true love. We started living together after only one year of dating.
Three years after I decided to leave; it just wasn't meant to be.
In my early twenties I tried finding love for one more time just to make the next discovery:
Love/relationships are highly overrated. The keyword is compatibility.
I'm not saying it's impossible, but the odds are small that you'd find your 'soulmate'.
For me, love has become rather cynical, rational, physical.
Once in a while I want to date, see what's out there, so I keep an open mind.
Besides, it's fun meeting new people, experiment, live, but it's hard finding the 'real thing'.
I'm not LOOKING, I'm not lonely, I just don't want to give up hope yet, 'cause in the end..
I think we all want someone to come home to and build a life together. : )