back again. we broke up!

[stilldoubting]

Okay I have been here before about trust issues. I am so crazy ****ing mad and I just dumped him over text. I have a Facebook page for work and I went on it to update a status to promote business. I then went onto my bfs page so he could like the status. I typed "h" into the search bar and the stuff that popped up!! "**** me as hard as you can", "sexy videos", "porn stars" etc. About ten different pages. And then I typed B in-another ten more. Then f-another ten more. I clicked on one of them and it was a FWB site.

This is on FACEBOOK!. Why the f**k would he look for this shit on that. If he just wants to watch porn, then it doesn't make sense to go looking for it on Facebook!

I then logged out and went into my page. Typed h, then B, then f and none of that stuff came up. I had to type "**** me" into it for anything close to come up on my page. So he has obviously been looking for this shit!

I don't know what to think! Or how to react. I just broke up with him, told him I am moving into the spare room, moving out next month. He hasn't text me back or rang me. Does that mean he is guilty? Is that a stupid question?

[searock]

What's wrong with looking for porn on the internet - whether on facebook or elsewhere, what does it matter? The only thing you mentioned that would concern me is the FWB site.

Anyway, it sounds like you two are fundamentally incompatible. The fact that he hasn't even bothered to reply to you means he doesn't really care if you break up.

[stilldoubting]

Most of these are **** buddy sites on Facebook. He hasn't liked anything or commented on anything as far as I know but why is he looking at them? Why would he feel the need to even look for this s**t on Facebook. That is my point. There's a million porn sites on the net so why Facebook? If that is all hes interested in (looking) then why not just type it into google? I didn't even know these types of sites were allowed on Facebook for ****s sake so how did he even think to try and find them. Why? He rang me saying hes really busy at work so he will ring me back.

I don't think we are incompatible. We have been together for 6 years. Our overall relationship has been amazing. We are perfect for each other and I have always trusted him. Hes not even the type to look for nsa sex even when he was single so it doesn't make any sense. But for the past few months, I don't trust him. Hes denying it now. Swearing he doesn't even know what I am talking about but those links wouldn't come up unless he has already viewed them!!

[basilandthyme]

The reason he hasn't texted or called you back is because you dumped him and told him you're moving out. If the relationship is over, why should he text or call you???

[stilldoubting]

I'm talking to him now and hes denying everything.