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    torn between two lovers

    i'm in love with two guy. One i meet online who lives across the country from me and ive been dating for a few months.the other lives in my home town and we have been dating for several years we have been sexual active and talked about kids. but i meet i meet this other guy and dont know who 2 choose please help.

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    How do you "date" someone who lives on the other side of the country?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    How do you "date" someone who lives on the other side of the country?
    I only talk to him online and talk to him on the phone. We really never dated yet, but I can't choose between my two boyfriends.

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    Are you kidding? You are thinking of dumping a real, live boyfriend for an imaginary e-boyfriend you've never even met?

    How old are you?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Are you kidding? You are thinking of dumping a real, live boyfriend for an imaginary e-boyfriend you've never even met?

    How old are you?
    I'm 20, and my first boyfriend is way older than I'm, and my other boyfriend is only few years older than me.

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    I think you should get rid of them both, and find one that lives in your area that is not older than maybe 25.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    The first one is at least 10 years older than me and the other one is only two years older than me.

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    Dear God.

    Just when I thought I had it bad...

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    Yes, but the one who is only two years older lives across the country and you haven't even met him. For all you know, he could be a 67 year old bald geezer sitting in a wheelchair, playing with his false teeth and scratching his balls. Don't you think it is kind of silly to be fantasizing that he is your Prince Charming?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    The boyfriend that lives in SC wants to protect me. My boyfriend in WA wants me to stay with him. I feel in love with the first one because we had some stuff in common, but now days, it feels like there is nothing we have common.

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    I think you need to talk to a professional. It doesn't appear from your last two posts that you are even reading what I write. Or maybe you intended for this thread to really be a soliloquy?
    Last edited by vashti; 30-10-06 at 12:40 PM.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    I already have a picture of the one in SC. He has been with me when all the fighting with first boyfriend began. There had been time I wanted to end it all, but he pulled me out of it.

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    Sorry, I'm kinda under the weather right now, and everything has been crazy with my first boyfriend.

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    I won't forget. Thanks for your help.

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