Is she ****ing with my head?

[CallumPromQueen]

Okay 2 weeks ago she dumped me, at first she was all "LEAVE ME ALONE!!" then she started ringing me, and leaving me messages on my myspace like "I miss/love you"

Anyway, Ill skip to the point, I stayed at hers the night before last, we had sex, acted like the couple we were hugging, kissing all of that and I THOUGHT that she was hinting for us to get back together, but she wasn't! And she continues to talk to other guys on the phone etc etc and made me promise I wouldn't tell anyone about that night.

What the ****? xxx

[Taryn]

Sorry to say this, but it sounds like she's using you :'(

[CallumPromQueen]

Using me for what? Sex?

[Glyph]

Sex, emotional fulfillment,take your pick.

However, YOU need to decide if you can't handle the ups and downs, and if you can't, you need to cut her off. Not saying you can't eventually one day be friends or whatever, but now is too soon. You need time to adjust to the fact that you aren't going to be together, and nothing tends to betray that fact more (in a person's mind, usually) than still being allowed to stick your penis in her.

So, I'd back off and tell her to give you some space.

[CallumPromQueen]

And that I shall do!

Thankyou very much everyone. xx

[Unscarred]

Sounds like the above ^

[cherrydaveney]

hi...she's using you...leave her....you'll get hurt if you'll continue...what she wanted....don't get blinded bro...

[Gribble]

I say learn how to control your emotions and let her use you. Have sex with her, but don't take her seriously. If she wants to use you, fine. Tell her what she wants to hear so long as she puts out enough to warrant the effort. Why not? Assuming she is actually low-down and manipulative, why not be a little low-down and manipulative yourself? Screw being the good guy when she's a bitch.