So i went to the movies with my neighbor. I have lived here for two months, she vascilates between gregarious and then guarded/cautious when we have talked in the past.
1. During the date she tried to pay for her movie. I insisted on paying.
2. She mentioned inviting her roomate but her roomate could not come because she had class.
Are those signs that she was telling me this is not a date?
Today I knocked on her door and asked her to go get coffee with me. She was not hostile but not smiling like she used to. She more resembled the guarded/cautious person. She told me she went for a walk, was tired and making dinner. All legitimate reasons not to go with me but I still felt pretty bad. Any pointers ladies?