caught him masterbating

[chelsee]

the other night i saw my bf masterbating in the room next to me. to me this = rejection. i don't get it why would he do this when i'm in the next room. is he addicted to sex? or is he thinking of someone else?

[jb5k1]

Wait, how old are you two that you weren't sleeping together? Maybe he didn't wanna get caught doing something.

I jerk off because I know how to control my penis and I can control my cum, so it's almost like training. I don't like just jerking off to get off, but maybe that's just me

[misombra]

oh my lord. why are you so insecure? get over it.

[gHEXjt]

Him beating it in the room next to you is a little wierd, but every guy beats it, whether they are in a relationship or not. And ANY GUY who says differently is a ****in liar. We all beat. Hell I do it even when I don't want to, I'm just prone to it. But seriously, don't take it as rejection. But unless you two live together?, I would tell him to stop beating it at your place, or at least do it when you're not around if it bothers you.

[jb5k1]

Well over the summer I rarely jerked off just because I got stimulation from my girlfriend like every day we hung out. But now that school's started I'm back to my doing it just to do it/train that pc up.

[Ellynn]

oh my lord. why are you so insecure? get over it.

Exactly! I mean maybe he just wanted to jack off! SHouldn't feel like rejection to you. My ex used to do that everyday whether we had sex or not..... I had my own solo sessions too. Big Deal! Its not like theres someone else in the room w/ him.........

[Chreeeeeestoh]

or is he thinking of someone else?

yes, he is.

[jb5k1]

yes, he is.

HAHAH that was mean.

[gHEXjt]

HAHAH that was mean.

I'm not going to lie. He probably was thinking of someone else. I can say from experience that I never jerk off to thoughts of the person I'm with at the time. That person never even comes into the picture when I'm beating. But than again I'm usually not thinking, I'm just watching porn. You just need to let it slide off your back. It's not like he's with any other person.

[chelsee]

it just freaked me out i guess, because i was in the other room. if it's just a guy thing i can accept that.

[Kiechi]

yes, he is.

He was thinking about you're sister!

[chelsee]

lol kiechi, he was really thinking about your sister!

[Kiechi]

lol kiechi, he was really thinking about your sister!

LOL. That wouldn't be right because my sister is only 9

[cheazypeaz]

well i disagree, i dont jerk off.. havent done for about 7 months, well.. since i met my first sexual partner... but well i guess i'll have to clean the pipes out sometime, its been 6 days now :|

[shh!]

the other night i saw my bf masterbating in the room next to me. to me this = rejection. i don't get it why would he do this when i'm in the next room. is he addicted to sex? or is he thinking of someone else?

Poor guy! How humiliating for him, especially if you felt the need to shame him over it. (I hope you didn't.)

Unless you have complaints about your sex life in general, you should get over this; it isn't about you. He probably just wanted to relieve himself with out the whole production of needing to reciprocate, which turns a 3 minute experience into at least a 30 minute production. Besides, men who masturbate learn better self-control. It will benefit you in the long run.