Girlfriend of 2 years asks for marriage

[kevin08]

So after dating my girlfriend for about 2 years she asks me to marry her yesterday. I told her that I'm afraid the answer is no & that I can't do it.

Of course she's upset. What is my next move? We've never had sex & never lived together. That was by my choice actually as I don't want to tell her what my favorite sexual activities are.

[Junket]

Are you favorite sexual activities with men?

[kevin08]

Well I like to cross dress & I wish I was a woman sometimes. I feel like a lesbian woman trapped in a man's body. I go to sleep every night wearing a pink skirt.

[Junket]

So go date a dude that will treat you like a woman. I don't see why she should date you.

[speakerspoke]

So go date a dude that will treat you like a woman. I don't see why she should date you.

No wait, he should go talk to a sex therapist, now that would be good. lmao!

[girl68]

Thank god you said no.

I think it's time to come clean with yourself and with her.

[lahnnabell]

This does not mean that you are gay, unless you are attracted to men. However, you did not say that you aren't attracted to your girlfriend. So, despite the fact that you are a closet transvestite, do you like men or women?

If you do still want your girlfriend, do you think this is something that will send her running? She'd have to be very sexually open-minded.