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    Ground rule of love making:better or worst for relationship

    My Partner thinks on following line:

    "Partner is not supposed to touch sex organs frequently/randomly. There should be a strict process for sexual relationship; even touching should not be allowed beyond allowed time period. Frequency of sexual relation should be defined weekly, monthly or yearly. A fixed time period will be given to partner for sexual activity."

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    I have a question:

    why are you with this person?

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    Sex should always be a focus for a couple.

    From the time you wake up, to the time you go to bed.

    It should be sporadic, fun, and intimate.

    You might as well predetermine when you may smile or have fun if you're going to view sex in that manner.

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    It sounds like you are dating the terminator.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anachronistic View Post
    It sounds like you are dating the terminator.
    *Arnold voice*

    Get down! Get down now!

    (Get dauwn! Get dauwn nauw!)

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    Get intoo die choppa! Nauuuu!

    Seriously. I wonder if she tells this guy when to go to bed. I'd tell her to suck on my big fat cock

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    Are you able to touch your partner in a loving, yet non-sexual way?

    Touching that ONLY leads to sex is a common complaint for many couples. I'm assuming you are a guy?

    I would try to be loving & touch intimately (but not sexually) for a period of time & see if it leads to her initiating sex. Say a month, if you can stand it.

    If nothing gets better, then you two aren't compatible & you should move on.
    Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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    She sounds like a religious fanatic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Are you able to touch your partner in a loving, yet non-sexual way?

    Touching that ONLY leads to sex is a common complaint for many couples. I'm assuming you are a guy?

    I would try to be loving & touch intimately (but not sexually) for a period of time & see if it leads to her initiating sex. Say a month, if you can stand it.

    If nothing gets better, then you two aren't compatible & you should move on.
    I often touch and say suggestive things to my girlfriend, regardless if I'm in the mood or not. I think it's fun, and if things are rollin' right for the both of us, we'll end up in the bedroom. It did lead to a little conflict before though because she would expect sex when I wasn't really in the mood (too tired) to provide it.

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    I'm curious about what the punishment is if you take too long...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    She sounds like a religious fanatic.
    Or an accountant. "By the numbers only, boy!"

    But, he could be like the sore GF of Mr. 8X Daily we had posting a while back. Just checking.
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    Maybe he's with R. Lee Ermey.

    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JubGpKHVk7U"]YouTube - R. Lee Ermey in Full Metal Jacket[/ame]

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