I had a close friend of mine come to me with an issue that she's been having....and I found myself stumped....so I thought that I might come here and pose the question to you all (I also assumed that since you guys think I'm crazy for dating "Captain ****stick" again....you might be able to give better advice that I could)
Anyway...she's been dating a guy for a while...not a long while....and things have been great....she said that everything was flowing perfectly...everything was very comfortable, and they were very much in love. Recently, the ex girlfriend of the guy found out about their relationship, and tried starting some drama....well, apparently, the ex's drama worked, and my friend and her boyfriend ended up in a huge fight while he was at her place, and he ended up just leaving, on foot, no ride....he just left. The next day, he called and apologized for leaving, and then proceeded to tell her that he wasn't really sure what he wanted, and just needed some time to think things over....that he did really love her, and was very much IN love with her....but was scared that his relationship with her was going down the same road that it did with the ex. She told him to take whatever time he needed to think about things, and that she loved him very much....and very much wanted to be with him....but only if he wanted to be with her. It was left at that....she hasn't called him...she's wanted to give him his space....but it's been 4 days now, and she's wavering now on what to do.
She doesn't know whether to call him or not....she wants him to know that she cares....but that she's giving him his space. Any advice that I can pass along to her?