What does it mean ladies?

[Sleed]

So im in a relationship with this girl i like a lot for 1 year and a half.

She had a few boyfriends in the past . No big deal , its actually good because she knows how other guys are and she wont be curious to experiment.

She was with a guy for 2 years . that she described ,with regret in her voice, and said 3 compliments about him: " he was smart , funny and a good person " --- > from what i understand he was the kind of guy that is mature , smart and funny . Stable , bright guy.

I still get the feeling she is not over him , she had to move out of that town and he kinda dumped her.

She has a relationship with me , but i saw in the yahoo archive that she said to him : " i miss you so much , no1 is as funny as you".
Im also a funny guy , but i have an other type of humour , that is not really always compatible with her. She likes innocent humour , humour that needs butterflyes and rainbows and flowers. I have a bit more malicious type of joking.

So i have a lot of exams coming and she decided to go visit him for 3 days in his home town, while i try to get my exams sorted out. She hasnt seen him for like 1 year and a half or maybe 2 years.

She is a very good looking girl , but also very caring and timid , she tend to stick to one person for a long time. I know she likes me a lot , she said she loves me a lot of time , a lot .... but there is a sense of wrongness in her going to see him , i told her she can go , i was really light and permissive, i dont like being jealous. But i feel jealous a bit , i mean im studying and she is hanging out with an ex lover.

So its important to understand we are very close and i can feel it that she cares a lot about the 2 of us , me and the ex boyfriend , but she hasnt seen him for 2 years almost, she is a moral , nice and loyal girl , but her loyality might be to him also.She might have a loyality conflict + an emotional conflict( she misses that guy , she doesnt wanna hurt me , cause she loves me , but i suspect she loves him also) .And she never had closure with him. Im sure they will hug at least. I hope it doesnt go further then that.

So my question is this : Is it normal for a girl to visit an ex boyfriend that is just a "friend" , for 3 days , while i study for my exams? Also ,he is kept in high regard by her. What do you think?

[Spring Haze]

What is the purpose of this meeting? To gain closure? She should be over this by now if she has no feelings for him.

[JessaCuhh]

I know you didn't ask but in my opinion she still has feelings for him.
I've been in that girls shoes; and I regret leaving my ex I miss him alot and think about him more than I should.
&& I haven't talked or seen him in almost a year.

But I guess going to see him if they were still friends after the breakup is fine; but for three days?
No sir.