Shes bored and confused

[mcs2006]

Ok basically....my giflfriend has said she thinks out relationship is boring....
we dont do anything...
its not spontaneous enough,
sex is boring,
there's no passion, no romance, no lust
BUT

She says she loves me so much, wants to spend the rest of her life with me cant live with out me etc etc etc....

Ok i guess i kinda agree, we dont do very much it is kinda boring, but i'm broke and i just dont know what to do and nor does she....

How can i get the spark back, how can i save our relationship, with little or no money....how can i show my baby i love her still and she means the world to me?

if you have any ideas...plesae help, before i lose her for good!

[OneWay2253]

try new things.. simple as that

personally i would try new things in bed

[artyemi]

It goes through cycle. I agree with the trying new things, but if you're broke, it might be hard.. Maybe you get a job, she gets a job... or maybe you guys see each other too much?

[Kellie_Sabrina]

You can always do simple things. Your dates don't have to be extravagant. You could just simply GET OUT... Go to a park or beach for a walk or swim. Maybe set up a little romantic picnic at night on the beach... That's classy & ideal! Take her to get a pet (something not so pricey... like a fish). Go to an aquarium & see the animals. Go park somewhere (bring a blanket) & look at the stars. Get some ice cream in town.

There's so many options for dates that are pretty cheap, but yet thoughtful or fun. Put some thought into it! You don't have to choose the obvious (expensive) dates. Just something that gets the two of you out of the house.

I aslo think you should consider different things in bed. Maybe different positions.... Maybe try paying more attention to her in bed... If you know what I mean!

Romance her! Make her fall in love with your charming & sweet self again.

[Gigabitch]

How long have you been together? If it's only been a couple of years and it's already stale, you may have a serious problem, there.

Is she bored by herself, or just with you?

Do you guys smoke a lot of pot?

[pb10]

Hey,
boredom can be a nice way of saying unappreciated, she probably feels a little insecure by what she percieves to be a loss of interest by you. .
im going to assume your GF is simply feeling a little unappreciated!! its very esay to get used to someone and assume theyl always be there.
you dont have to have money to make her feel loved and happy.
big gestures dont really do it for me. . but when my BF notices something new and complimens me, sends a random i love you text or was jus thinking bout you/ miss you, or remembers when i have something on like an exam or cwrk and asks how its going.
even when hes all hugs and kisses. .
simple stuff like that will make a difference. .
does for me anyway
hope this helps