I have been in this relationship for over 5 years now. It is like living with my best friend for the most part my problem is after the first 3and a half years 0r being intimate often it just sort of went away not sure why.
At first she said it was uncomfortable for her I said there are things to help with her being dry (we are just over 52 now) but then her story changed to she had been abused a few times in her younger years and did not want sex. But said she would work on it a year and a half later we have had sex 3 times and I am at a lose on what to do please help