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    how to deal with someone who ...

    how do you deal with someone who :-
    - is scattered-brained
    - listens to her friends all the time and can't make up her mind
    - talks about love all the time but knows nuts about love
    - declares her love and gives herself to any tom, dick or harry that comes her path when she is lonely
    - is gullible to believe her so-called best friend who tries to ruin her happiness by spreading rumours and half-truths to her about her bf, and at the same time badmouthing about her to her bf
    - who needs assurance and attention all the time
    - who will sleep with another guy when the attention is not given to her
    - her mind fleets back and forth from the past to present to future. she is seldom present

    how to maintain a relationship with such a woman ?

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    You don't maintain a relationship with such a woman... you open the door for them, show them the way out... and then wave before closing the door.
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

    - James Allen

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    Quote Originally Posted by kenny12 View Post
    how do you deal with someone who :-
    - is scattered-brained
    - listens to her friends all the time and can't make up her mind
    - talks about love all the time but knows nuts about love
    - declares her love and gives herself to any tom, dick or harry that comes her path when she is lonely
    - is gullible to believe her so-called best friend who tries to ruin her happiness by spreading rumours and half-truths to her about her bf, and at the same time badmouthing about her to her bf
    - who needs assurance and attention all the time
    - who will sleep with another guy when the attention is not given to her
    - her mind fleets back and forth from the past to present to future. she is seldom present

    how to maintain a relationship with such a woman ?
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    You asked the wrong question. You ought to ask yourself "Why maintain a relationship with such a woman?"
    When in trouble,
    Or in doubt,
    Run in circles,
    Scream and shout.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    You don't maintain a relationship with such a woman... you open the door for them, show them the way out... and then wave before closing the door.
    Quote Originally Posted by chump4u View Post
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    You asked the wrong question. You ought to ask yourself "Why maintain a relationship with such a woman?"
    Those are good answers, or just do what she does if you just don't care anymore. I would of, but that is just me.
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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    i was just asking to get some feedback. i've already dumped her. first criterion of choosing a life partner is to have a sound mind. she's obviously way off.

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