Background info:
Got out of my first "real" relationship in early January - things got bumpy in the end and she started changing, I would have done the break up sooner or later, but she took the initiative. I took a hiatus for a while after that, until now..
Now.. I'm starting to really like this girl I met 2-3 weeks ago while in the mall with a friend.. let's call her Anne (fake), and friend Bob (fake). I followed him over to his friends (whom I never knew), and it kind of went like this:
Me (to group): hey..
Anne (to Bob) : what's his name?
Bob: Ian
.. moments pass, getting ready to leave
Anne (to Bob): what's his name again?
Me: Ian
Maybe I got the wrong idea, but I wanted to get to know her.
I searched her up on a local forum site (no, I was already a member there), got her e-mail and added her to MSN - and immediately hit it off, so to speak.
I'm a very very easy person to talk to over IM, if the other person tries to hold up a conversation, if not, I do the same as them. But this girl, is extremely easy for me to talk to online, there's rarely a dull moment where one of us isn't entertaining the other. But that's one of the things, I haven't seen her in person since, just because of school during the week, etc.. I made a few subtle hints I wanted to meet up with her at the mall again this weekend - I have no idea if she picked up on that or not, but she had things planned.
Mind you, for good or bad, I'm not sure, I never really came out and said "want to meet up?", though I'm usually straight up with things. She had actually made that move a while ago in saying we should hang out; I agreed with her.
In one of her latest journals on the referenced forum, there was a quiz she'd done, so I read it, and one of the questions (paraphrasing) was basically a 'do you have a crush' type, her response was positive, but she never gave a name.
I'm really getting along with this girl, more so than with anyone before, and I never expected to.. I'm going with the flow of things, letting whatever happens happen.
There are, however, a few things that I'm not sure about:
1) She lives a distance from me (out of walking), and I have no car, a bus would be the only way out to her
2) She is about a year and a half younger than me, though that's not a relationship factor
3) She recently broke up with her last boyfriend
4) I wouldn't see her so often, due to the fact of distance, mostly weekends, possibly a few weekdays here and there
Though if everything worked out, none of that would matter.
But like I said, she is extremely easy for me to talk to, joke with, and from what I can assume, I'm the same to her. We haven't really known each other for long, but that doesn't seem to be an issue. I'm just not sure if I should wait to try to assure myself she is really interested in me before I make any moves, or if I should make my own now.
I don't really have a specific question here, I'd just like to hear opinions on any part of this.