ok so im 20 and the girl I met is 17 im and college and she is getting ready to leave for college about 3 hours away. we have been friends for about 2 weeks hanging with people and also hanging out alone. a few nights ago we made out very heavily. she said we were moving too fast and i told her i agree and this doesnt mean were together. she responded with saying we cant be together before she leaves for college because that will cause problems and she also doesnt lied being tied down because she has alot of guy friends but doesnt make out with them. she told me she wants to keep hanging out and since then things havent changed. i like her and i wont to continue to get to know her and possibly be with her. but she just doesnt see it happening before she leaves for college. i told her even if we were together before college we would deal with those issues when the time came but she cant help but to think ahead. and she wouldnt be tied down with me i told her bc i dont care about her guy friends. so how should i go about this?