she tells me I love/fancy HER, then says she's winding me up!

[phippsy]

there's this girl in my college class, we get on really well and have a great time in the lectures. there's a rumour going around that i have feelings for her and i think she's heared it. she has also told my sister (they are friends) that she thinks i'm 'stunnin' and 'lush' (which i have seen in a txt.)
in the last two lectures that we have been in, when we've been winding eachother up, she has been replying with comments such as: 'just bcoz u love me'. 'i know u love me'. 'y dont u jus finish with ur g/f so we can get on with our livesoo wis'. then she says stuff like 'i'm sooo winding u up'.i wud just like to know whether or not this could mean that she has feelings for me? i do fancy her, but sumtimes feel that my feelings for her make me think she feels the same way.any ideas???

[sarah-jayne]

wow..yeah it is quite common for girls to do this it is her way of flirting because lets face it if she had heard about your feelings and didnt feel the same she wouldnt really be bothering would she...although she is joking around while flirting ,Try getting her to one side and having a serious conversation with her about her feelings for you ,it might seem daunting but it will give you the answers you want .You mentioned that she says 'y dont you just finish with your g/f'which you didnt mention having a g/f if this is the case and you do fancy this other girl find out for deffinate about how much this she likes you before deciding who you really want or you could seriously upset and hurt both girls.Be gentle.and good luck with your decision.

[Cybog]

[zas]

i wonder if cybog has ever had a love life ?

[phippsy]

thanks sarah. i don't think i'll be doing nethin as i am happy with my g/f. your reply helped a lot though! phippsy xx

[sarah-jayne]

no problem at all im happy to help.If your happy with your girlfriend good luck to you and appreciate what you have because we dont realise what weve got till we lose it.im glad i helped.have fun and take care.xxx

[bluesummer]

Holy crap. Cybog. I laughed so hard I almost cried

[Cybog]

Yeah, some guys need to get slapped in the face with a "I REALLY DO LIKE YOU!!" stick before they get a clue.

[III Angie III]

Yeah, some guys need to get slapped in the face with a "I REALLY DO LIKE YOU!!" stick before they get a clue.

Men occasionally stumble on the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened. lol