Ok i've got to lay the groundwork before my problem will make any sense. The girl I love for her pre-teen and teenage years was a part of a "community" that did the whole master/slave thing people do in the bedroom in all areas of life. Shes very submissive by nature, so for a long time she was a slave for her masters. I've known this girl for 7 years. We lost contact for a while and finally picked it back up and she decided she wanted to do modeling. Nude modeling, which was fine, it still is. I became her driver because I was out of work, but as time went on we got a lot closer and we both started falling in love with each other. Once I started staying with her, we pretty much spent most of our time together.
Now, we didn't do much of anything sexually, because she was still married to her highly abusive "master" ex husband. We never even started dating officially because of it. As the months went on, she started using more and more of her freedom, and it scared her, but I was always there and so it was ok for her. When she no longer had a home, I took her in and made sure she wasnt homeless (she has been homeless twice in her life, both around 3 months long, and both in the winter) and we worked up enough money and I found a room we could rent on our own. Everythings fine, we arent dating but we are definitely more than friends. We love each other very much.
So, we end up working with this very creepy photographer and his girlfriend. We work with them for a while and apparently she develops an infatuation with that couple. They did a very watered down version of what she grew up with. Now I know she still loves me. I know the main reason she left is because she is just scared. She gets flashbacks from time to time from her past. Well, her being afraid of her new freedom and scared of what might end up happening with me has manifested in me taking the place of the people who actually did the stuff to her in the flashbacks.
She moved in with the photographer and his girlfriend, and started a "relationship" and by relationship, the creepy photographer is the master and he and the other girl are his pets. We just met them a month and a half ago. I don't know how to convince her to face her fears and come home. She is only there both because of the infatuation and because she is scared of what might happen. Shes now 45 minutes away and I cant see her I can only text and call. Anyone have any ideas on how I should handle this situation?