Is it better to know that the guy you are dating is a virgin up front or is it alright for him to hold off and tell you when things get more serious? Or just not at all lol
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16-08-11, 02:19 PM #1
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Virgin Guys?
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16-08-11, 02:28 PM #2
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How old are you?
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16-08-11, 03:31 PM #3
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23 and she is 19 and not a virgin, but lets just keep it general too.
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16-08-11, 03:36 PM #4
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Okay. Tell her when you feel comfortable telling her. Your sexual past really isn't anyone's business, so you don't owe it to someone to tell them right away. Bring it up when it's relevant.
Unless it's just going to be a one-night-stand kind of thing, then you don't need to tell them at all.
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16-08-11, 06:24 PM #5
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I think he should be up front about it......not sure about timing but definitely before you do the deed. I mean, if I slept with a guy who was a virgin, I'd know the first time we had sex. Then I'd be pissed he missed that little detail.
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16-08-11, 08:47 PM #6
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If you're dating and haven't gotten physical yet then hold off. I think she'll have an idea as you move on, but I suggest that once you are progressing sexually that you let her know.
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16-08-11, 10:10 PM #7
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All men are virgins if you want them to be...
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16-08-11, 10:13 PM #8
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Or can be made to feel like one, depending on the woman.
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16-08-11, 11:34 PM #9
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No one ever told me they were a virgin nor did I. Its a choice....you dont have to if you dont want to. For me guys told me years later "you were my first". I just thought "awwww" thats cute......no big deal.
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16-08-11, 11:38 PM #10
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A guy I was dating told me he was a virgin...boy, I had so much fun with him. It was quite fun teaching him things...then the novelty wore off when he didnt improve quick enough.
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18-08-11, 12:34 PM #11
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Guess I will just tell her when we get hot and heavy and I feel like its going that way, because I don't really see the point if we aren't.
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18-08-11, 01:40 PM #12
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Virgins guys....that's hot, let me fix them
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26-08-11, 01:45 AM #13
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If it were something serious I think I´d rather know (although it would probably end up making me more nervous since i´d want to make sure they really enjoyed it!). you don´t HAVE to say anything if you don´t want to, but if it is someone you care about and vice versa then it shouldn´t make any difference to her
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