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    is he interested in me, or am i just a fling/substitute

    i have this guy friend whom i have known for quite some time but we only got closer recently. we have gone and solo dates, held hands and give small hugs occasionally. no kisses yet. but there's the thing, he is attached. i know i am wrong in being close to a guy who is attached. i should probably shoot myself or stop the drama immediately. but i kind of like him. and he's initiating the handholding and more physical contact. so is he interested in me too, or probably having not such a good time with his gf, thats why im the substitute, his relationship with his gf is good and bad at times, lots of drama.

    so guys, whats yr take on this.
    seeking; yet unbelieving

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    Quote Originally Posted by ghast View Post
    stop the drama immediately
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    Do Not Get Involved W Him!!!!!!!

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    Agree with Lesa and trixie20.

    Get out from being involve.
    Do that when the boy is not already committed.

    Put yourself in the part of the girl, What do you
    think would you feel if you know your boyfriend is dating with
    another girl?

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    I think he is kinda using you as a sub and it spell trouble in the long run.
    I am unclear about sig rules...

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    He's cheating on his GF. Why would you ever want someone like that? Ewww.

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    If he's cheating on his girlfriend theres a good chance he will do the same to you eventually.
    (dont find out the hard way. dont get involve with him to begin with)
    I want a girl who likes to talk. ......I just dont know what to say sometimes and would rather just listen.

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