Met a guy. Went on a first date to a bar 3 weeks ago. Talked for a few hours, he walked me home to my transportation home with his arms around me and we kissed for a minute.
Then I heard from him every few days but only through text. First he asked me to the movies and when I said I had seen the movie he dropped it rather than mentioning seeing Another movie. So I had to say I love all movies so it's all good to me. It didn't work out with our schedules. I heard from him on christmas eve asking me in text if we can get together when he gets back from visiting family. He texted me for christmas and new year personalizing the texts with my name.
He got back and texted me to meet up. He had plans with his friends and wanted me to join. We met up first beforehand for a drink and chatted and then we ended up at a lounge/club without his friends who had left. He told me that after the lounge he was going to his place and I was welcome to come...I said I'd skip out. He got touchy and frisky during dancing and squeezed my ass, rubbed against me, but he seemed to be testing the waters and was still respectful if I put distance between us...and then tried to kiss me to which I avoided the kiss. His ego seemed bruised and he may have displayed a moment of attitude since he raised his hands up so as not to touch me and I laughed it off....but then a few mins later when I danced with my arms around him and closer he blurted that he was confused. I didn't know what to say...I mean, we're at a club, I don't mind dancing close but I didn't want to be unclassy and make out and have him constantly touching my ass.
Then toward the end of the night we went to a more private area upon his suggestion and he touched my private area for a quick second when my back was turned. I didn't say anything and wish I had. We sat down, he tried to kiss me again and this time I didn't reject him. It was pretty light making out and he didn't touch me anywhere. Then he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies for our next date. We left, he got us some food, we left there and he had the cab drop me off where I needed to be...we made out in the cab and he said he wished I wasn't going home. I left.
One day went by and then he texted asking if i still wanted to go to the movies. We made the plans. And that's where I'm at...haven't gone yet. This guy seems nice and respectful and has some good manners and apparently he researched me on the internet and let me know he did telling me he saw my work. And he seemed to remember practically everything I ever told him on our first date and had apparently mentioned me to his friends. Also, our first date was three weeks ago and we just saw each other a few days ago...I honestly couldn't even believe the few times he texted me that he even remembered me or was trying since so many days would pass by. But he seems to act non chalant and sometimes I sense he might be a jerk. But he's very honest and when we speak he puts on no act. Could be the best actor on earth? I'm extremely good at perceiving an act and my instincts are usually spot on. But this guy has got me confused.
And now I don't know if he's just putting in some dates to get sex. And more imporantly, if he thinks I'm that kind of girl (which means I must have gave him unintended signals or he just judged me to be that way) and since I messed up on the second date by not speaking up when he touched me, what do I say or how do I act on this next date so that he knows I'm not going to give it up and I'm a good girl...? And thus, find out if he'll still be interested. Also, what's up with him?