She dont call back, Pisses me off

[COAD]

Havent asked for advice in a while....
Here is my story:

Lately stuff between my girl have been awesome except one thing, She has a calling back problem. She says "I will call you right back" and 98 percent of the time, i dont get called back. I talked to her about it, but she says "I never call anyone back".

I did reverse psychology on her, but still no results. Guess its her way of life.
I heard there are a bunch of people like this, but its really bothering me and she knows it.


Maybe someone could throw a couple of pointers?
Thanks

[whaywardj]

Could this also be a control issue on your part?

[Asip4u]

Same thing happened to me until i decided to stop calling her for awhile...All of a sudden she would start calling more often then usual.

[misombra]

you guys and your phones. why do you wanna be on the phone all the time? maybe she just doesn't wanna tell you that she just doesn't want to talk..

tell me ruskie, how often do you talk to her on the phone?

[COAD]

actually, we dont talk that much on the phone... Im trying to make it more tho. Ussually phone is used to set up dates and stuff. Although before we talked for many hours. Right now summer came and we do a bunch of hanging out.

[misombra]

when was the last time you guys hung out?

[COAD]

yesterday... Was a very sweet hangout too.

[misombra]

okay well you had a sweet hangout with her yesterday coady. i wouldn't fret too much over her not wanting to talk on the phone.

[artyemi]

misombra, your pm... can't send you anymore..

[misombra]

oh! i'll empty it and send you one...

[artyemi]

COAD, don't stress out too much. You don't need to be on that phone that much.

[blauw]

Do thesame to her
Let her feel how it feels

[Pilot]

Your g/f sounds alot like mine. Mine promises to text and stuff and never does it. I guess all you can do is play her at her own game. She'll soon start to wonder why you're not calling her.

[Illusional]

don't call her for a month and see what happens.

however, there are actually people like this. i had a friend back in the earlier years of college and he was the same. even his gf said that he's not the type to make a lot of outgoing phone calls. shrugs.

raverboy

[Junket]

Could this also be a control issue on your part?

Control issue?

I wouldn't think so.

It's a curteousy issue on her part.

I have a friend that's like that.

His excuse is "well you called me back didn't you?"

At which point I tell him to call me and hang up.

Just for the principle of it all.