Advancing Options

[CodenameX]

Alright, so I am having trouble reading a girl. I want to get to know her better, but I'm not sure quite what to do.

Tiny bit of back story:

About 2-3 weeks ago, I met this girl (20-21 years old), became Facebook friends, and talked quite a bit. However, she seems to end conversations abruptly. She'd respond later (not long after she got off) but the conversations just kind of halted. Eventually, I got her number to make things easier to message her. Same thing there. Very abrupt ends to the conversations. She doesn't give me a lot (sometimes any) space to continue a flow of conversation. In person, it's different. Conversations just happen naturally and continue well. But, I don't really ever see her.

Now, most conversations are short text/short Facebook messages. Also, it's slightly apparent I dig her (at least to friends). I thought she was into another person, but at the same time I think I still might have a shot. I feel like any positive signs are offset by a negative signs (mainly the short conversations that just end).

I have a few options, but I'm not sure which one to take:

- a friend said to lay low. She what she does. She's pretty laid back but can get pretty energetic. But due to the lacking texts/Facebook conversations I should lay low.

- I could ask a friend to she if she is into anyone. However, I feel like this may backfire and may be a bit more cowardly. Maybe not cowardly, but something along those lines.

- I was also thinking of going against option 1 and inviting her over to catch a TV show or grab some dinner off campus. She may be waiting for someone else to do something. This way I can see/talk to her in person.

Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have been messaging her less as of late, but if that is seen as a negative thing, I would change that.

[iamaninnocentma]

Best way to get a bitch like this is to ignore her. If you can, post a few pics on your facebook of you and another bird, and if she likes you even a little bit, the jealousy will make her crazy. If that doesnt work, post a pic of your knob and see if she likes it. Thats how i got my gf.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

He's right. Ignore this bitch. Keep going after other girls. If this girl does contact you, ask her straight away if she wants to come over for a movie. If she says yes, then make a move on her, and if she doesn't at least give you head, then stop talking to her.

This girl isn't worth anything but a ****.

[askdanica]

Yes, Ignoring her will be the best thing to do, it can make her appreciate your presence if she has feeling for you even a little.

[surfhb]

Bad advice.....crazy idea here but ask her out first. Who wants To go round and round on Facebook and texts without being asked for a date. Jeesh! You kids today!

[Boisdevie]

Jeesh! You kids today!

Yeah but look on the positive side. They're not going to be doing any shagging so that'll help cut world population which can't be a bad thing? I say continue ****ing around on facebook.