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    What does it mean when a girl "doesn't know"?

    Today I called this girl to ask her out. She answered and hung up immediately, then texted me saying that she couldn't talk at the moment. I asked if I could call back later, and she just told me to say what I was going to say. So I asked if she wanted to go out for boba next friday; she said she "didn't know" and told me she would tell me before friday.

    Should I be worried? The last girl I asked out who was unsure cancelled last minute...

    (We are going to ninth grade next year)
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    Maybe she has to check w/her parents. Anyway, don't press. If she doesn't get back to you, just ignore and move on b/c she's not interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeses View Post
    Today I called this girl to ask her out. She answered and hung up immediately, then texted me saying that she couldn't talk at the moment. I asked if I could call back later, and she just told me to say what I was going to say. So I asked if she wanted to go out for boba next friday; she said she "didn't know" and told me she would tell me before friday.

    Should I be worried? The last girl I asked out who was unsure cancelled last minute...

    (We are going to ninth grade next year)
    Forget her....sounds flaky

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    Whoa you two were in the eighth grade? That changes everything. Maybe she can't date yet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeses View Post
    I asked if I could call back later, and she just told me to say what I was going to say.
    because she's so young i bet she was just nervous about talking to a guy on the phone so she preferred text

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb View Post
    Forget her....sounds flaky
    Yeah... crap
    Quote Originally Posted by Bonfire View Post
    Whoa you two were in the eighth grade? That changes everything. Maybe she can't date yet.
    She has dated other guys before.

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    Who cares? You're in eighth grade. You won't go on a proper date until you're 21.

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    Might be she agreed and could not tell you directly. Or else she wanted to check with her parents. Because if she does not have interest in you, she could directly deny you. But possibly she needs some time to think about it. And as you mentioned, more chances appeared that showing the good thing for you as [URL="http://www.myboyisanidiot.com"]her boyfriend[/URL]. As i guess, You are very near to her and you just need to act calmly as she likes. And wish for your best complements. Allow her to think and approach gently without any complain. I think it's already done and just taking some time, so let it flow slowly. There is nothing to worry.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeses View Post
    Yeah... crap

    She has dated other guys before.
    Don't worry bro..... They just get nuttier and nuttier as they get older.

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    Quote Originally Posted by deepika_16 View Post
    Because if she does not have interest in you, she could directly deny you. But possibly she needs some time to think about it.
    I suppose... thanks for your insight. i guess all i can really do is wait

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb View Post
    Don't worry bro..... They just get nuttier and nuttier as they get older.
    Untrue. Girls are so f*cking whack when they're young, and the funny thing is that always believe that they are so much more mature than boys their age.

    They have no f*cking clue what it means to be a woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Untrue. Girls are so f*cking whack when they're young, and the funny thing is that always believe that they are so much more mature than boys their age.

    They have no f*cking clue what it means to be a woman.
    it was a joke. However, ive met plenty 30 and 40 something women who are like you desribe

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    Hmm i thought girls are supposed to be less insane with age LOL. anyways, graduation is on monday, and im probably gonna see her at tye reception... If i do what do i do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeses View Post
    Hmm i thought girls are supposed to be less insane with age LOL. anyways, graduation is on monday, and im probably gonna see her at tye reception... If i do what do i do?
    Actually, as you get older you notice that many people (men and women) have never grown out of the 7th grade. My mother is one of them and she's 70 years old

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeses View Post
    Hmm i thought girls are supposed to be less insane with age LOL. anyways, graduation is on monday, and im probably gonna see her at tye reception... If i do what do i do?
    Ask her out! I guarantee she not used to be asked out if shes 12 or 13. if I were her Dad, Id bonk you in the head though

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