Need Male Advice..... Please

[confused-kitty]

Been with my man for 6 years now, moved in together 6 months ago all was well for a little while.

The past few weeks have been awful due to his moods and extra friendly self help in the bed.

First night i thought i was going mad second night it was clear what he was up to but i ignored it..... third night i thought it was taking the mick so i walked out and slept in the spare room.

He confronted me about my leaving the next day and i told him why......... he denied it all.

Anyway to keep the peace i prended to believe him thinking he may have been embarrassed.

but it has continued since and every night i have asked him out right in bed and he said he 'wasnt moving a muscle'

Last night was just so in your face obviously i got up again and left.

Tonight when he got home from work he was fuming with me and kicked off screaming fu*k of* and calling me a bitch.

I dont mind him doing what he did i just think its disrespectful to do it in our bed when im there and up early for work so need to sleep.

I normally gp up to bed to read at least half an hour before him why doesnt he do his nightly ritual then.

It feels to me like he either gets a kick out of me being 'unware' next to him or he's pushing me away for other reasons.

Totally lost as to the answer

Any opinions will be appriciated

x

[RonHH]

The next time he does that and right in the middle of it, Ask him if he needs help.
He will eather stop, say no or it may be his way of asking you to join in.
I don't really know why he would do that to you, but don't wait until it's over or the next day. find out right then and there.

[HDM13]

He's masturbating?

[confused-kitty]

i asked what he was doin there and then one night and i got told 'nothing'

[RonHH]

Do you see this going on? or feel it?
Reason I'm asking I shake my foot at night that might feel the same way.
I was told my body is trying to burn off energy.
Thats why I'm asking if you see this going on.

[confused-kitty]

oh this defo isnt no foot twitch