what can i do now? her marrige was done

[S-Ali Raza]

what can i do now? her marrige was done
i think that i lose every thing
every thing is over now and i m the bigest losser of the world and i still can't do.i feel that my breath is held
and my soul is leave my body
world is empty now and i m alone
i want to do sucide but i m sure that death also leave me just like my love leave me
i can't live or die what can i do??????
no body can help me because GOD not want to see me happy
Ahh my luck
my luck

[IndiReloaded]

What did you give her as a wedding present?

[Petit Papillon]

was she forced to this marriage or she could say no ?

[Petit Papillon]

PS.and tell me where do You live

[S-Ali Raza]

was she forced to this marriage or she could say no ?

no she not forced to this marrige
her marrige was forced by her family

[S-Ali Raza]

PS.and tell me where do You live

i live in Lahore (Pakistan)

[Petit Papillon]

no she not forced to this marrige
her marrige was forced by her family

i live in Lahore (Pakistan)

Yes I meant it if someone has forced her to this marriage...I don't know the law in Your country but i suppose there is no foundation who helps girls escape from such marriages... The only and the most difficult way is to run with her.But You would need to plan it very very good.And it won't work in one day.For such thing You need to plan every single part of it.And probobly You would need to leave the country.So it would also mean to break all of the contacts,so nobody could find You.Try to find some foundation for example from UK ,I think there is many of it.They could help You prepare everything,like to find a place where You both could live ,names change etc... If You and this girl are ready for a step like this then try.But all must be in a secret. It's like You need to kiddnap her . It's really a big move so You have to be REALLY decided for it.It can change Your lifes totally . But if You're not ready for this,than You just have to forget her... Wish You the best.

[carl1222]

Hi S-Ali, Sorry for your heartbreak.

Pettit Papillon, be careful! While your advice would be spot-on in European/American cultures, in many parts of the world, including Pakistan, forced arranged marriages are the cultural norm, and are protected by law.

So while whisking her away has enormous risks already, one of those risks may be prison if you are caught in Pakistan!

Good luck,

Carl.

[Petit Papillon]

I said,he has to be decided for such a step and be very very carefulll

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Instead of being supportive you're getting suicidal? There's nothing you could've done except accept it. Your life is not over, there are lots of other girls out there, she's not the only good woman out there. I hope you come back and read your posts one day and laugh at how silly you sound.

[S-Ali Raza]

Instead of being supportive you're getting suicidal? There's nothing you could've done except accept it. Your life is not over, there are lots of other girls out there, she's not the only good woman out there. I hope you come back and read your posts one day and laugh at how silly you sound.

yeh i really hope so
but every one know itself
i think that the time you are saying is never come
anyway thanks for your reply and thinking about me

[S-Ali Raza]

there are no any foundation in this country
haa ! anyways thanks for your thinking about me
i know tere is nothing for me and i lose every thing so nobody helps me infact GOD don't want to help me
whatever thanks budy

[vashti]

Hi S-Ali, Sorry for your heartbreak.

Pettit Papillon, be careful! While your advice would be spot-on in European/American cultures, in many parts of the world, including Pakistan, forced arranged marriages are the cultural norm, and are protected by law.

So while whisking her away has enormous risks already, one of those risks may be prison if you are caught in Pakistan!

Good luck,

Carl.

I agree with you. There are huge differences between Western/Eastern cultures. Prison would be the best case scenario. If this woman agreed to run away with you and was caught, the price (at least for her) could be death.

I'm sorry for your loss, but you need to forget about this woman.

[S-Ali Raza]

I agree with you. There are huge differences between Western/Eastern cultures. Prison would be the best case scenario. If this woman agreed to run away with you and was caught, the price (at least for her) could be death.

I'm sorry for your loss, but you need to forget about this woman.

thanks for your kind support
yes i know that if we run away then our family members could not live us any more
so there is better for me to forget her
but i can't forget her
whenever i want to forget her ,i see her anywhare
so please tell me how i can forget her
i forget my self but can't forget her

[vashti]

I wouldn't expect to forget about her so quickly. It will take some time. Just keep yourself really busy to divert your attention. Maybe you can take up a new hobby? I suggest something physical. Exhaustion will help you sleep at night when you will likely feel the worst.