What is wrong with me?

[Mr Wigglz]

Well today is my bday... just another day for people to pretend to be my friend and then the f*ck off for another year. I used to have a few friends but now I only have my gf really. What have I done wrong? I haven't changed myself in anyway. I'm a computer nerd. I talk about the same things. People are friends with me for about 2 weeks max then they all tell me to f*ck off for no reason. They basicly hate my guts.

I don't know what I do wrong. I try to join in and joke around. I do things to keep them happy. I think its becuse they find out I'm a loser and they ditch me. Even online... in forums and online games. How can I keep friends and have true friends?

With people treating me like this its pushing my selfesteam. I get depresed about anything really. I see people hanging out and I get down about it becuse I know that people don't really like me and they avoid me. What can I do? Its ruining my life ;(

[clearskies]

I would like to say onething that is always said to me too: you are so sensitive ... it is bad in these days.. We have to be strong and reply back.. You are also more caring about others than yourself. If you knew these things about yourself, I think you will have your own ways to overcome such destructive feeling.

[Aegis]

How old are you?

[Mr Wigglz]

Just turned 19 today

[DoesntMatter]

Happy birthday ya Aussie bastard!

At this age, people usually don't like talking about things of substance. Do you usually talk about things like hardware technology and your friends get bored by it?

[Mr Wigglz]

Thanks DM
I only talk about what they are interested in. I only talk about computers if they are already talking about it

[clearskies]

When you find what they say is not appealing to you, just try to listen and not to talk at this stage.

[DoesntMatter]

Try DOING something fun with them. Do you play paintball? Try it out and invite your friends to go play a game with you

[Aegis]

What you're probably suffering from is not that they hate you...unless you're actually obnoxious & offending people...but rather that they don't think about you. You're probably not anyone's "Right-hand Man." So...you have to take the initiative and call people up to find out what's going on. If they don't actively dislike your company, they generally won't care if you come along.

If they really do hate you...quit making people hate you...lol

[DoesntMatter]

Try getting some homosexual friends

[shh!]

I think claiming you have bipolar disorder might be alienating to some people.

[Mr Wigglz]

Try getting some homosexual friends

I have a bi friend... dose that count?

[DoesntMatter]

Try offering him sexual favors in exchange for a closer friendship

[Mr Wigglz]

Try offering him sexual favors in exchange for a closer friendship

You wanna be the girl or the boy this time?

[DoesntMatter]

Geezer no wonder nobody wants to be your friend, you damn queer